Teach Your Children Safety Skills to Mitigate Risks
June 03, 2025
All parents worry about their children’s safety, especially when the family is out of the house for any reason, from a walk in the neighborhood to a 4th of July parade. Parents of children with autism may experience heightened anxiety and concerns due to their child’s lack of expressive and receptive language, focused interests, and social awareness. A child with autism, for example, might not experience a sense of danger if approached by a stranger. An autistic adolescent who is interested in cars and knows all the makes and models might rush to quickly cross a street to take a closer look at a cool parked sports car, while ignoring community safety rules such as looking both ways before crossing the street.
Teaching children with autism safety skills can help mitigate risks. A child, for example, can practice sharing their parents’ name, address, and phone number in case they wander off or become lost in the community. Parents can teach their children how to cross the street safely. Behavioral skills training can be used to teach these and other skills. Behavioral skills training consists of the following:
Children in general, particularly children with autism, often benefit from pre-teaching. Pre-teaching involves highlighting parental behavioral expectations or what is likely to happen before engaging in community-based activity. For example, a child who loves going to their favorite fast-food restaurant might immediately bolt for the restaurant’s front door, not watching or attending to vehicles nearby, due to the excitement of arriving at their favorite place to eat. Or a child might wander off in the grocery store to go to the cookie aisle. In situations such as these, pre-teaching can be useful. Pre-teaching is designed to increase predictability and expectations, thus decreasing impulsive behavior that might result in safety concerns. These are the steps for pre-teaching:
If you have safety concerns about your child, it is particularly important to be aware of the environment around them. When first arriving at a place (for example, the mall or a park for a picnic), scan for safety concerns such as:
Regularly scan your surroundings to identify potential risks and take proactive steps to ensure your child’s safety (e.g., have them hold your hand, maintain closer proximity to them)
For some children, the strategies above may not be enough. If this is the case, parents should consider rewarding either the absence of a behavior—not bolting away from the family group, for example—or a positive behavior—communicating that they want to go and look at something, for example. These are some tips for using rewards:
If these recommendations are not successful or if your child has several near misses, consider seeking support from a board-certified behavior analyst (BCBA). Behavior analysts have expertise in helping to refine and adjust these strategies to make them more effective.
David B. McAdam, Ph.D., BCBA-D, is an associate professor of pediatrics and education at the University of Rochester. At the Warner School of Education and Human Development, he is the director of the master’s degree program in behavior analysis. At the University of Rochester School of Medicine, he provides behavioral consultation to persons with intellectual and developmental disabilities in schools and other community-based settings in the Community Consultation Program